What rizz means
Rizz is charm as a skill. Oxford’s definition is “style, charm or attractiveness; the ability to attract a romantic or sexual partner”. It works as a noun (“he’s got rizz”) and as a verb with “up” (“she rizzed him up”), and it is graded: people talk about “W rizz” and “L rizz”, a win or a loss.
The most useful sub-sense is unspoken rizz: attracting someone through presence alone, without saying anything. That is also the joke version, used to describe someone who says nothing at all and expects it to count.
Tone matters. Said sincerely, it is a compliment. Said about yourself, it is almost always a setup for someone else to say you have none.
Where it came from
Rizz has something most slang never gets: a named populariser. American YouTuber and Twitch streamer Kai Cenat used it within his friend group and on his streams from mid-2021, where it meant the ability to attract someone — “game”, in older slang. His circle spread it through the streaming collective AMP, and from there it leaked into TikTok, where it became a caption, a hashtag and eventually a verb.
The obvious theory is that rizz is clipped from the middle of “charisma”, the way “fridge” comes from “refrigerator”. Cenat himself has pushed back on that. In a 2023 interview he said that to him “rizz just meant game” and was not short for anything. As with most fast-moving slang, nobody wrote down a first use: the word was already routine in his circle before anyone outside noticed it.
Credit where it is due: rizz is a streaming-culture word made by Black creators. The “TikTok slang” label that most explainers use is where the word was discovered by adults, not where it was made.
When it was first seen
- Mid-2021: the earliest documented uses are on Kai Cenat’s streams and in his group’s videos. There is no single “first clip”; the word was already routine among his viewers before it was noticed outside them.
- June 2023: the mainstream breakout. Actor Tom Holland told an interviewer he had “limited rizz” and that playing “the long game” helped win over his partner, Zendaya. The clip spawned waves of memes and pushed the word into ordinary conversation.
- September 2023: Merriam-Webster added rizz to the dictionary. December 2023: Oxford University Press named it Word of the Year, chosen from a shortlist that included “Swiftie” and “situationship”, decided partly by public vote.
How it spread
The vector was streaming first, then short video. Twitch and YouTube audiences learned it from Cenat and AMP; TikTok turned it into a caption format (“POV: he has rizz”); then a single celebrity clip carried it into the press. The Holland interview is the moment adults heard it.
It then got bundled. The 2023 parody song “Sticking Out Your Gyatt for the Rizzler” packed the era’s streaming slang — gyatt, skibidi, sigma, Fanum tax — into one anthem that children sang at each other, which is how a lot of Gen Alpha learned all five words in one go.
Dictionary recognition did the last mile. Once Oxford crowned it, every newspaper ran an explainer, which is the usual sign that a word has stopped being young.
Variations
Rizzler: someone with a lot of rizz, a pun on the Riddler; also the nickname of a viral young creator, which gives the word a second meaning. Rizz god: the top tier. Unspoken rizz: charm without words. Rizz face: the smug, lip-biting expression people pull when demonstrating it.
The verb keeps drifting. “Rizz up” now gets used for persuading anyone of anything — a teacher, a bouncer, a landlord — well beyond dating, which is how slang survives: it finds new jobs.
Is it still in use?
We watch three signs. First, the inventor left: Cenat has said he stopped using rizz himself once it went viral. Second, institutions arrived: dictionaries, brands and news anchors all adopted it within a year, and in our experience official recognition tends to hasten a term’s decline among the people who made it. Third, the ironic use now outnumbers the sincere use.
Yet rizz has settled into everyday vocabulary far more durably than most viral words. Our current read: safe to use, no longer new, and best deployed with a straight face and no explanation.
Similar words
Often mixed up: Rizz vs aura
Questions people ask
What does rizz mean?
Rizz is slang for charm, charisma or ‘game’ — the ability to attract or flirt with someone successfully. As a verb, to ‘rizz someone up’ means to charm them.
Where did rizz come from?
It was popularised by YouTuber and Twitch streamer Kai Cenat, who used it with his friends and on stream from mid-2021 before it went viral on TikTok. It is widely thought to be taken from the middle of the word ‘charisma’, though Cenat has said that to him it simply meant ‘game’.
Is rizz a real dictionary word?
Yes. Merriam-Webster added it in September 2023 and Oxford University Press named rizz its Word of the Year for 2023, defining it as style, charm or attractiveness and the ability to attract a romantic or sexual partner.
What is unspoken rizz?
Unspoken rizz means the ability to attract someone through presence alone, without needing to say anything. Related terms include ‘rizzler’ and ‘rizz god’ for someone highly charismatic.
Sources
- Wikipedia, “Rizz”en.wikipedia.org
- Oxford University Press, Word of the Year 2023 announcementcorp.oup.com
- Merriam-Webster, “rizz” entry (added September 2023)merriam-webster.com
- NPR, coverage of Oxford’s 2023 Word of the Year (December 2023)
- Northeastern University, linguistics interview on rizz (December 2023)
- Kai Cenat interviews: 360 with Speedy Morman and No Jumper (2023)
Checked 6 Sept 2026. The “still in use” verdict is our editorial read, updated by hand, from the Ask page. Spotted an error? Tell us and we will fix it.
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